Sunday, February 21, 2010

Declaring My Religion

I am not a traditional girl, but I am a fan of tradition. I was raised Catholic and went to Catholic school for 8 years. I send Christmas cars every year because I love the tradition of personal greetings, but I purposefully pick ones with messages of peace, love & joy versus "Seasons Greetings" or "Merry Christmas." Giving up something for Lent each year (this year Candy) because it feels like a challenge, a way to better myself, and because it feels right.


I suppose there is a valid argument in that I don't really identify myself as a practicing Catholic anymore, so I don't really need to do any of the above. I go to church at Christmas & Easter because it makes my Mom happy and it's tradition. It feels like what you *should* do on those holidays. And those homilies are typically not preachy, but yet have messages of love and peace. The two things that I believe are stronger than any certain religion. I'm not an "see-you-every-Sunday" Catholic because so much of their message is mixed and hypocritical. And often these days, political.

I have faith, yes. I believe that is probably something bigger than all of us that is connecting us all together. But I just don't believe that one god would ever consider himself/herself/itself the right god. What is the purpose of the messages of love and peace, if deep down, we believe that one group is better than another? So my general spiritual purpose just believes that as long as you are putting good things out into the world, you'll be rewarded. Perhaps that means here on EArth or in some heavenly way, who knows. And I believe that if you feel moved to "pray" or talk to some spiritual being, then you should. Whether that's through poem, song, silent thought, or a prayer that remember from childhood, it's perfectly okay to send that out there. Thoughts like those, general are or should be, filled with love and peace. Maybe it's not as simple as the "power of positive thinking," but I do believe that the power of good can change things for the better.

I don't believe that formal prayer has a place in public schools. If we want to have a moment of silence each morning, for students to reflect on their own goals, peace, faith or even just on their hair, then that should be allowed. I don't believe in pushing your beliefs on others and yes, I respect the groups that try to "save" me on street corners, but I don't think it's the best strategy to get people to listen.

Religion is a touchy issue, I get that. But I also think that if we all spent a few moments reflecting upon what it's like to live in someone else's shoes, we wouldn't be so wound up in our own beliefs, habits & ways of life. As more good is being put out into the world, I think we'll be okay.

What are your traditions?

1 comments:

Brenna said...

Again, just getting around to reading... but I'm absolutely with you on this one. I tried going back to the Catholic church when I was having a really bad time a few months ago, and it basically just made me feel worse. That's not what a religion should do. Amazingly, I felt more spiritual when I found a great yoga teacher than I ever did in years of attending church. It's all relative to your state of mind and life position though, and who knows, maybe someday I'll find my way back.

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